From a shamanic perspective, sex and sexual relationships are things that frequently occur in my clients non-ordinary reality experiences. Gender is an issue that recurs in many people’s relationships with their spirits as specific forms of teaching. My interest in writing and teaching in this area comes not from anthropology but from having authored three books on sex and sexuality and been an academic researcher in the area of sexual behaviour.

The female breast is a gift from God that help speaks for women without talking when seen by men. Many married women love and hate their breasts and backsides. They think these parts of the body are the most important areas that will score them soaring points in bed with their husbands. Yet women who are not so naturally endowed with them can still be sexually appealing, charming, interesting, wild and exciting in bed.

Marriage is a sacred bond, and that is why it is extremely unfortunate that cheating is at an all time high in our world today.  The twenty first century has brought many technological advancements and put us all a text message away from each other.  Whether it is through social media, text messages, or even tweets; there is no doubt that people are communicating more.

Your husband is cheating on you and you are 100% sure of it.  Stop. Take a deep breath and reevaluate your husband’s behavior over the past couple of months.

Some men are heartless, and a lot of women would probably tell you that all men are heartless, but don’t jump to conclusions just because you suspect that you have a cheater boyfriend.  Look for the signs before throwing accusations around.  Infidelity hurts whether it is in a marriage or a more casual relationship, and once the cheating begins it usually only begets more cheating.

Most people that have been cheated on; whether in a relationship or while in a marriage, will tell you that they had a gut feeling that something was going on well before they actually confirmed the infidelity.  An unfaithful spouse will usually give off certain cues and exhibit certain behaviors that are indicative of cheating.  The most noticeable sign is usual a reduction in physical intimacy.

Has your husband or wife been acting strange or staying at “work” at lot later than usual? Maybe you have read a couple suspicious emails or text messages of his or hers from a co worker or friend. An extreme change in behavior is usually associated with cheating in a relationship or marriage.