Responsiveness Varies Between Individuals
Responsiveness occurs randomly in the population. Arousal depends on a positive response to eroticism. We are only motivated by the need we feel.
Sexual Responsiveness & OrientationResponsiveness is innate – we are born that way, Men are much more responsive than women. Orientation is defined by who we are attracted to.
Undressing a Woman With Your EyesRecently a friend of mine confessed that whenever he saw a woman or met one at a party or a function he always undressed her with his eyes. He fantasized about how she would look without clothes, without her sari and blouse. He further told me that he would also imagine how she would look with her lingerie and sometimes wondered whether she was wearing any at all.
Over Time Women Often Become Focused on FamilyWomen may enjoy providing for the needs of others. Obligations of marriage – regular sex vs. support. Women are told they should enjoy sex.
Young Women Tend to Focus on Their AttractivenessAttracting male attention – women’s role in arousing men. Women look for affection from men. Women define their lives in terms of their relationships.
At Puberty Girls Develop a Child-Bearing CapacityGirls are much more timid & passive than boys. Girls focus on relationships rather than eroticism. Ovulation is a subconscious process.
Men Tend to Focus on Opportunities for Regular SexMale sexual frustration. The dog & ball theory. Men’s needs are immediate & obvious.
