It takes a very special type of person to willingly dominate another human being, sexually, physically and emotionally. It takes a special kind of person to ‘let’ those things happen, and to give over completely to the person in control; offering up mind, body and soul to them to do what they will. Acting as a Dominant is never in the purview of a bully, nor is the submissive a shrinking violet, afraid of his or her own shadow. Certainly, Dom/mes can be aggressive and submissives can be shy or reserved, but nothing is ever written in stone.

To those who discover and learn to use their tantra energy reservoirs, there are untold dimensions of sexual pleasure in store. In fact, it can be safely stated that nobody who does not learn tantra under an expert tantra master will ever discover their fullest sexual potential. The sexual freedom that ancient tantra brings as a gift to all those who pursue it can scarcely be imagined.

For the uninitiated, BDSM (which stands for Bondage, Dominance, Sadism and Masochism) may seem a quirky, perverted and wrong-headed view of life and of love. In point of fact, many may erroneously believe that it is a lifestyle choice for people of ill-repute or those who enjoy abusing others (or who enjoy being abused). This couldn’t be further from the truth, and is an unfortunate point of view fostered by fear and ignorance.

One of my clients recently said: Sex, it just doesn’t happen anymore. We love each other but we are so busy and we are tired in the evening so that we don’t seem to find the time and the energy. Does this sound familiar?

Low desire by one partner toward the other hurts. if both have low desire, then they may be content to just live like roommates with occasional contact. But when one person longs for connection and sexual pleasure and the other resists or avoids it, the emotional pain can become excruciating. This article suggests what can be done to bring back the desire, return to love, and enjoy intimacy again.

Keeping your marriage alive is easier than you think. There has been a lot written about relationships and marriages but, unfortunately, most of the advices are about few particular things. Those advices do not reveal the actual “Attraction Patterns” of marriages. Therefore, most of the men fail to spark the attraction in their marriages.

Women can be quite unpredictable. For this reason, some men find sex intimidating. However, this does not mean you need to memorize all the complicated lovemaking techniques from self-help sex guide in order to please a woman. You can still bring a woman to orgasm if you are able to master the simple things that give her pleasure. The more you can give her what she desires, the more you will get her sexual trust, gain increase sexual confidence on your part and also get turn on by her high state of sexual arousal.