Just knowing more positions doesn’t make someone a better lover. If you get too focused on positions, you may also be overly concerned with performance. Instead of showing your partner affection, you’re caught up in showing off sexual prowess.

When someone is stingy with sex and only has sex when their partner has done something they want them to do, that’s using sex as a punishment and reward. They may think to themselves, “You rat. I’m not having sex with you because you annoy me.”

Sex therapists frequently state that sex is about the journey, not the destination. Meaning, foreplay is more important than orgasm, and relationship is more important than foreplay. Fair enough, but sometimes what someone needs is a good toe-curling orgasm to release tension and get the full benefit of the relaxation afterglow.

Sex therapists frequently state that sex is about the journey, not the destination. Meaning, foreplay is more important than orgasm, and relationship is more important than foreplay. Fair enough, but sometimes what someone needs is a good toe-curling orgasm to release tension and get the full benefit of the relaxation afterglow.

Sometimes you have to poke below the surface of your sexual boredom to get at its cause. Does it really make sense that you should find your partner’s body, once so hot to you, to be a big yawn?

Communication is essential to a fulfilling sex life. Learn how to have better sex by deeply listening to your spouse’s/partner’s sexual cues.

Sex is really more than just an act, rather; it is an art of consensual expression of human special feelings. This feeling lies in a place where no eyes can reach. Some engage in it for the true reasons why it was made, while some abuse it and some use it just to satisfy their selfish and temporary carnal gratification.